I did make a couple of HD cyber girlfriends who became IRL friends, but I mostly just listened to them talk about sex and picked up a few ideas. They were part of the reason I started questioning my LD state. One of them is VERY HD and I admired her for being so comfortable with her sexuality and so open about it. Getting to know her helped me see that I was missing out. They already knew I was LD before they met me, because they were on another of cac's boards.
IMHO this is a MAJOR key for the "LD" spouses. Being able to have friends that have been able to be happy and HD.
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True, but probably not a common occurrence. I never knew any "really" HD women until I met my cyberfriends. I think some of my IRL friends have "healthy" drives, but we just don't discuss it. My very HD cyberfriend was originally from South America, where they tend to be very open about sex, so she freely talked about it, what she likes to do, how often, etc. I had never met someone like that before.
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Hey, wanna be a cyber -> IRL friend to my W? LOL
LOL. If I thought I could help your W, I would try, but I'm still finding my way. Even though I've made the choice to have a better SL, I still fight the old habits and auto-pilot behavior. It's definitely a process.
