No advice on the hysterectomy issue. I do know that my Mom went through a period of wildly labile emotions for several months post-hys until the hormones levelled out. However, they took her ovaries and she was on replacement. Some hormone levels might help answer the issue. Hormones have profound effects on emotions. My best friend has post partum depression and couldn't understand why she hated and wanted to divorce her perfectly nice husband until the doc tested her hormones and discovered that she had virtually no estrogen in her body. A day on a patch and she loved him again. The hormone issues may be affecting not only how your W's breasts feel but how she feels about sex in general.
BTW - lovely weather the last couple of days in the Central/Southern MD area. Hope you are enjoying it and getting outside a bit. This is my last week on maternity leave and I am!
