Unconditional love Ian. That is what I wrote in my letter and this what I will deliver. Together or apart. If she continues with OM (which I get the feeling she is), I will just need to accept that. Just as she will need to accept me moving on with someone else. What's done is done. Getting angry and resentful does me NO good.
And you know what Ian...I think rising above all of this and reacting with love instead of anger is a wonderful lesson for my kids.
Do I think she has made some horrible choices? Of course. But I don't need to hold them over her head either. Just as I would hope that she wouldn't hold my past mistakes over my head. I don't see how doing that helps either of us.
