H kinda came outta the dark, but he's gone again

[mkultra]

OPHelia, I am sorry to hear of your worries but I am proud that you are handling them so well. I found your letter to be to the point and light, not blunt. It was classy and supportive with a hint of hope, and I liked that. You sent him the message that you do not judge the way he spends his money and time, but that you are also not moving forward toward Divorce-ville. In regards o worrying about the OW, we all need to stop doing that since that is out of our control and there is no competition. I look at the whole Team Aniston and Team Angelina thing and I do see the OW getting pregnant a lot in the media and that is a concern but we have to focus on ourselves. It sounds like your lives are still very intertwined because of the in laws and you get to hear too many details. I think that about my life too, but hey it goes both ways, so live it up and be a good girl and he will hear about that too. You are a treasure and do not forget it.