Because you guys were not the ones being yelled at for years and years. Again..not saying it is or isn't. Just saying you don't know until you are in those shoes. Let's put it this way, I'm willing to forgive the A and move forward but she is unable to move forward from the yelling. And I refuse to think that she doesn't WANT to save her M. I beleive she does...this isn't easy for her to do. How could it be? She is dealing with a lot of guilt for it - i know that. So the hurt must be pretty damn bad. I did a lot of damage.
