It is finally out, he wants a D

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Thanks BND. I have started being quiet. Yesterday he asked me what was up, I said same old same old. He said something is wrong if I am not chewing his ear. When he called at lunch I was quiet on the phone. Again he asked how I was.

He slept downstairs last night for other issues. (Dog accidents)
He came upstairs in the morning to get clothes and asked me again how I was. I gave the same generic answer. Then get this--he hugged me!!!!!! Why now is being nice? I just stood there with my arms at my side.

I am trying not to act needy, thanks. I am just acting like he is now, emotionless and quiet.

I know I will be ok without him, I am a survivor. Why do you say I act like I need him?