Hey ali-

Your last thread seems to me like you are really down on yourself. This has nothing to do with you as a person. Yes like me there may have been signs that you did not see. Yes like me you may have taken things for granted. But.... The only one that had total control over the sitch was your H. He is the one that made the choice.
Sounds like you have enough on your plate that you don't need your mom distracting you. Does she live with ya? If not try not to have much contact with her at this time. It hard enough to deal with one relationship issue.

And I know it's a curse, but being a beautiful woman is another thing you are just going to have to except and live with.

It’s just like the fact that people come to California for the cheese instead of Wisconsin. (lol) ;\)

Husband


And if I claim to be a wise man, well
It surely means that I don't know