What do you guys mean about breaking the cycle? I have done many things but none of them ever worked for good.
If they didn't work it is because you either were not making the changes needed for yourself, but rather for him, to appease him, to win him back or what you were doing was the wrong approach.
HSS the changes need to be for you not for him.
Do you not see that there are deeper issues with him, and you are not going to be able to fix your Husband. This is something he has to do for himself.
The fact that he can run home to his Daddy whenever something goes wrong is a huge red flag.
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Maybe I don't NEED him, but I WANT him.
Your behavior would suggest otherwise.
The man wants a Divorce. He is moving out. Why reward his bad behavior with sex and acting needy?
It is time to be strong and stand on your own two feet, he needs to see that he is not needed, and he needs to see what life will be like without you and his home.
As I posted to you before, this has been going on for the last couple of years, the back and forth BS. Enough is enough.
((((((((hugs))))))))))
There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.
