I think my H saw some of my posts when I first started coming here. I was a computer virgin LOL and didn't delete the history and know he'd been checking the history. He told me he was a very private person and didn't like discussing what he considered intimate details with friends. Guess he wasn't too thrilled at me discussing worldwide!!!!!
I really don't care if he does read anything I've written and it can be helpful for some. I wish he would have come to a forum like this and maybe seen it was okay to be more open about desires.
You know maybe instead of worrying about it all you should just go for it. I mean when your kissing touching etc just go that step further. I mean just get in there quickly while the moment is there without giving her time to say no. I'm not suggesting force but just following through. If she pushes your hand away keep going and be loving and tel her how beautiful she feels to you. If she really pushes you off and it feels wrong then obviously you have to stop but maybe she really wants YOU to take things further.
I don't know what the right thing is for your wife but I do know the wrong thing is to continue like this. You will almost certainly have an affair at some point.
