Sorry I haven't caught up on your sitch as of late (getting to yours tonight Nom!).
I also sensed a lot of doubt in your W's phone call - read between the lines - there's a lack of urgency on her part here - whether she knows it or not - some part of her brain IS dragging its feet and for what purpose??
She's even kicked the filing part across to you - her reason just isn't valid - I think she just doesn't want the responsibility of the BIG decision and she is NOT 100% sure about it anyway - because surely SHE would have done it herself by now!
I still think you've got to stick to your plan - your calm / friendly demeanour is perfect DBing 101 - please don't lose sight of this.
And don't wory about hindsight - as I've found out - there are ALWAYS opportunities up ahead for anything you thought you SHOULD have said.
Keep fighting the good fight and stick to your plan - I still believe its working behind the scenes. Cheers Scotty
