have begun to obsess about our situation now. I don't know if it is a healthy obsession-as in I will do anything that needs to be done to make this work- or an unhealthy obsession-as in I cannot think of anything else and it is beginning to take over my life.
One thing you must do is NOT obsess over your sitch, I know it's hard but in the end you'll drive yourself crazy, I know this because it's what I did the first time in my sitch and it's what I'm NOT doing this time, except for getting on this website for advice and consolation I try not to think about it and if I start thinking about it I'll do something to take my mind off of it, like going to the mall or somewhere where there are a lot of people.
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