I think it was a fantastic conversation! It's called intervention. You made it clear that it wasn't motivated by your desire to keep the family together. You thanked her for her love of the same person. I think you did a heck of a job.
H-36 W-38 Married 14yrs Together 17 2 Children (D12, S15) 9/20/05 - Seperated 4/23/07 - Dbomb dropped 4/25/07 - I Love you, not in love "If it's not hard, it's not worth fighting for."