Why do these things happen IV

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At some point you'll have to tell her, just not yet it doesn't seem.

I am lost, tell her what?

She's still undure you've changed (we're all going through this - they saw the crappy us for so long, it's hard to give us another shot). She's seeing, don't you worry about that - do it for you and your son and she'll come along soon enough.

I agree, not enough time in her eyes to see it all, or even trust all she is seeing. As we all know, we hope they come along.

I mentioned it to my W at the meetings we've had, and you've seen how she's reacted. She doesn't want to do anything with the 3 of us, she doesn't want to get S4's hopes up, but she knows our family is better together than apart. that's what your W will see, and you'll get a chance to talk to her about it eventually.

Mentioned what, stress on son? I can see your wifes point of view in not wanting to get your sons hopes up doing things together, but that is exactly opposite of what my wife is doing. As for that, maybe I am just reading everything wrong and she is moving forward toward a family status again. Remember, I am male and if not told directly, I don't know what I am suppose to think.

How're you doing personally? PMA? GAL? All those other fun acronyms?

Uummm, yes I am GAL, cannot say I am exactly having fun with it by I am. As for PMA, has it's good days and bad, today just seems to be a pretty low one and for no real apparent reason, just mentally feel blah.