I just realized that you changed your name...sorry. It might not be the correct thread to answer you on...but, you asked me to check you out.
If he is in an EA, his interest in pushing for the D is probably due to the fact it went to a PA, or will shortly...he feels that he might have a future with her...thus, he needs closure on the past...you. If you have followed the DB principles, some I know you have and he still wants out...well, you need to accept it. He is ready to move on...you, however, are angry and cynical... not a good receptive place to be...yes, he blames you, how could his wife be that way...men don't accept women cheating...it cuts their manhood, but men can cheat...he'll never forgive you...but what bothers me more is his flippant response to not havng the daycare money...your child didn't ask to be born, he is responsible for her well beng...garnish his wages. This is who your husband is now...not the one you married...let him go.
Life is too short to be with the wrong person...Ed Young Ministry who knows if the H was the right choice to begin with...yes God doesn't like divorce, but He surely doesn't want us to be with someone who doesn't love you in the manner that God wants...that is why he gave us the intelligence to problem solve, to help ourselves. Why cling to someone who wants out after you have tried to make changes. Some people want a clean slate, to start anew without having to work, or just fell out of love. Just because you got married, had a child does not mean he was right for you...take this as God giving you an out to find someone who will truly love you, faults and all...
