Oops, he just called. Where is S's helmet for BMX? On the front seat of your truck... Then he says, you didn't tell the kids about this? Yeah, I did. S had told me (when he was trying to fix everything) that we all just neeed a vacation from each other for a while, go to our own corners and work it out in our heads (smart kid). So, I told him today that we thought it was a great idea and are trying it for a few days.
H says that D is asking him if I am upset, why didn't I go with them, etc. She is younger...forgets things she doesn't want to know about, hears what she wants to hear...H said that he just wanted to know what "we" were telling them.
This is his mess, and I have to handle it, even when I'm not there...my poor babies.
Maybe tomorrow you should "forget" to take your phone with you. Make sure it is in the house so he can hear it ring when he calls you. So he does not think you are ignoring him.
Me 54 DS19 and DS17 Married 06/1989 Divorced 01/2011
