I did make a couple of HD cyber girlfriends who became IRL friends, but I mostly just listened to them talk about sex and picked up a few ideas. They were part of the reason I started questioning my LD state. One of them is VERY HD and I admired her for being so comfortable with her sexuality and so open about it. Getting to know her helped me see that I was missing out. They already knew I was LD before they met me, because they were on another of cac's boards.
IMHO this is a MAJOR key for the "LD" spouses. Being able to have friends that have been able to be happy and HD.
Hey, wanna be a cyber -> IRL friend to my W? LOL
Chrome
"Recollect me darlin, raise me to your lips, two undernourished egos, four rotating hips"