At some point you'll have to tell her, just not yet it doesn't seem. She's still undure you've changed (we're all going through this - they saw the crappy us for so long, it's hard to give us another shot). She's seeing, don't you worry about that - do it for you and your son and she'll come along soon enough.
I mentioned it to my W at the meetings we've had, and you've seen how she's reacted. She doesn't want to do anything with the 3 of us, she doesn't want to get S4's hopes up, but she knows our family is better together than apart. that's what your W will see, and you'll get a chance to talk to her about it eventually.
How're you doing personally? PMA? GAL? All those other fun acronyms?
We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.
3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...
