I am not really GAL myself..focused on moving and my new sitch. PMA I'm with ya bro..i have my really good hours..I have my really bad ones.
H-36 W-38 Married 14yrs Together 17 2 Children (D12, S15) 9/20/05 - Seperated 4/23/07 - Dbomb dropped 4/25/07 - I Love you, not in love "If it's not hard, it's not worth fighting for."
Hey i'm OCD with some minor bi-polar. Don't knock it. I think I am finally on the right combo of drugs. I haven't thought this clearly in years.
H-36 W-38 Married 14yrs Together 17 2 Children (D12, S15) 9/20/05 - Seperated 4/23/07 - Dbomb dropped 4/25/07 - I Love you, not in love "If it's not hard, it's not worth fighting for."
No worries, wasn't knocking it, but I am starting to wonder. One of the main things in it was the mood swings, extreme high's and extreme low's. I seem to be that way alot now days. Wondering if beer hid it for a long time.
M 41 W 33 S8 S17 Bomb 3/11/07 S 3/28/07 New beginning? 8/31/07
Could you still be having some dry drunk moments? So tell me about the phone convo.
H-36 W-38 Married 14yrs Together 17 2 Children (D12, S15) 9/20/05 - Seperated 4/23/07 - Dbomb dropped 4/25/07 - I Love you, not in love "If it's not hard, it's not worth fighting for."
Whoever does not have are son at nite calls around 8:30 to say goodnite and all that stuff. Well I was on the phone with her and son picked up other line, she knew we were both on the line. My son while talking with both of us asks his mom,
S- "When you and daddy live together again, can "dog" live with all of us."
W- "Yes, "dog" will live with all of us too, the cats miss him."
Dog lives with me, she has the cats
I know, I know, don't read anything in to it, but she could of answered so many different ways.
M 41 W 33 S8 S17 Bomb 3/11/07 S 3/28/07 New beginning? 8/31/07
That sounds like a baby step to me there 789...a very small, but bright light.
H-36 W-38 Married 14yrs Together 17 2 Children (D12, S15) 9/20/05 - Seperated 4/23/07 - Dbomb dropped 4/25/07 - I Love you, not in love "If it's not hard, it's not worth fighting for."
I like baby steps. Her comment about the cats is what got me. I won't put a whole bunch into it, but made me smile. Thankfully son didn't ask me about it after we got off phone.
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M 41 W 33 S8 S17 Bomb 3/11/07 S 3/28/07 New beginning? 8/31/07
Sometimes I wonder how many WAS actually do have a real treatable disorder. A distant relative abandoned her two sons and a loving husband because her meds were way off. She could not handle the children while on these new meds. She regrets all the damage she did after her husband moved on. I am not saying that some magic pill can save a marriage but I wonder if the left spouse is the scapegoat when one parter suffers from deression, or another compulsion?
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."
