Of course, I am HD so I can't speak directly to your question except to say that in my experience it must frequently the case that HD women hang out with other HD women because I have always talked to my female friends about sex and most of them have been quite in favor of it. I had a cute as a button friend way back in high school whose boyfriend was relatively LD (he was cheating on her). I had another friend in H.S. who was a strict Mormon but got repeatedly busted for "undue familiarity" with her boyfriend in the school halls. I really have no clue what the LD girls were talking about at their lunch tables but I always imagined it to be something lame along the lines of "Then he tried to put his tongue in my mouth, It was totally grotesque but the ring he gave me for my birthday cost $329 so I let him." Meanwhile, at our table we were listening with fascination or hilarity to each other's stories about skinny-dipping with male classmates "...and he had a really cute *ss but...." or having sex with sophisticated college men "...and then he dripped hot wax from the candle on me."

It used to be the case that when LDW would talk about what sex fiends their husband's were it would make me depressed and I would be quiet on the topic around them. Now, I'm straight-up "Really, I have a very high sex drive myself. I feel sorry for your H because it s*cks to not get laid enough." Then they'll backtrack and say stuff like "Well, sometimes I'll give him a BJ if I'm not in the mood." It's just a little public service I am doing for the HDH of the world when I get the opportunity.


"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver