Nicola,

Thanks so much for the wonderful post.
This whole process is def. a learning experience.

I had to laugh at your Jesus comment. So true. Dont think I will be changing water t wine anytime soon ( too bad, I could use a nice chilled glass of white wine right about now! ;\) )

I totally agree on accepting. You can accept someone and then decide that you do not want them (or that behavior) in your life.

Ah , sigh....

thanks for telling me that I am doing alright... coming from you that is a huge compliment!!!!!!!

brava


Me: 36
He: 34
no kids
Married: 2000
He left: July 05