It's ok we all go through that, to make personal change in our lives takes a lot of work. Anything you want in life you have to work hard for it, change doesn't come easy. I'm a perfect example of making personal changes and believe me it took a lot of work.
Don't beat yourself up about making her happy, happiness is a momentary delusion that society deceived people into believing. That if she/he’s not making you happy, find someone who will. Or if you don’t live in a certain house, drive a certain kind of car or wear certain kind of clothes don’t worry some will give it to you. But the problem with that is she will never deal with what’s wrong with her inside!
Happiness does not come from people, places, and things but from within! All these things at some point will go away and then what are you left with? Unhappiness all over again and that’s why happiness cannot depend on circumstances. Circumstances always change!
If she’s not happy with you, most likely she won’t be happy with anyone else. She fell for the lie of what the world calls happiness, hook line and sinker.
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