Wow dude, I don't know if I could be as cool as you if my Ex demostrated those kinds of behaviors.

I know I'd take my W back even after D, but I'd be torn just like you are. I'd want to see some serious change on her part. It can't always be about the spouse who wants to save things. Both PARTNERS have to do something or it'll never work out.

I think if I were you, I'd at least be dating a little. Just to be fair to you, to see that you still got it (I'm sure you do ) and to show the exW you're not sitting there pining for her, you know? Well, I don't know but I'm guessing.

Have a good one, hope all works out the way you want!


We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.

3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...