Maybe you can get dressed up for you instead of H - just do it for fun and to feel good. Then it won't matter as much if you get compliments. (or maybe you'll get 'em from other people and make H worry just enough to give them himself!)
Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7 Bomb 1 10/07/06 Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15 Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07 Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate 2/08 slowly improving 7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!) Current thread
