This is his mess, and I have to handle it, even when I'm not there...my poor babies.
Really work on getting the blaming out of your mind - it isn't going to help anyone. He could just as easily say it's your mess, for hurting him for so long (whether you meant to or not). It doesn't matter - what matters is how you go forward.
Have to handle it? No, you don't. Let him do it. Give him control over his R with the kids, by not fixing it for him.
Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7 Bomb 1 10/07/06 Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15 Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07 Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate 2/08 slowly improving 7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!) Current thread
