Hi Holly Good to hear you keep moving forward in a positive direction . I do admire your spirit.You sound so strong in spite of the sadness of moving on your own . I know I should be sorting out all the junk I have accumulated over the years along with my children's stuff. I may be doing the same thing although perhaps not by choice exactly. But I will leave that there for now . There are too many uncertainties in my life to contemplate right now . On the job front I have done what I can for now and must wait and see the result . I am praying that it all works out.
Is this the house you have just had built? Tell us about it ..when you have time of course. You have amazing faith it seems . Mine wavers as one hiccup seems to have followed another in the last year. I know you are busy but if you have a chance would you mind taking a look at my 'rambling ' journal on my thread . I feel in such a fog.
Have you decided where the 'pole' is to be placed?
Love and Light Bislandgal
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Glad to hear you are alright. I will call you later this week. Nothing new with me. Wish I could come help you with the move.
Everything happens for a reason, maybe Dad needs to find that it isn't better out there, he needs to realize how good he had it here. Maybe he will find God and that is the most important thing when he finds Him he will know he is supposed to come home.
Had a TJ contact today. Surprised the poo out of me. He thanked me for the Father's Day card. He said it was good memories of Carribean Vactations!
I think this was significant baby steps here. Following on everything I have had this last month, I am wondering where I will end up. Big question mark for me.
When I started DB, I think I had a hair's breathe chance of saving my marriage.
I will be honest with you, I think my chances are getting better to be around 50/50. I see TJ really moving around here. And I do not see any steps backwards!
I would appriciate your comments.
BTW, my ceiling is purple. I like the purple pole idea. I tell you what, you come visit and it will be Yellow, k?
Bomb 1/06 D dismissed 11/07, attempt reconciliation. Premature. Divorce final October 31, 2008. OW looks like bad history. Over. Still hopeful. Baby steps. In R with my X.
Hey good for you Holly. So your S appreciated the recognition as a good father. A good move obviously. You injected some memories there too it seems. Keep smiling .Slowly slowly catchee monkey is the phrase I believe? hair's breadth to 50/50 Sounds good.
And much of the time you have managed to "BE still" I believe ? Correct me if I am wrong . You are a patient lady.
Love and Light Bislandgal
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It sounds good that he mentioned good memories of your Carribean vacation. The fog must be clearing somewhat for him to even make the connection.
I will be praying hard for you. It seems God has been working hard during the Father's day weekend. Much forward progress on the threads I follow. I will learn from the master and wait patiently for my turn.
I have missed you around here.
Everything happens for a reason, maybe Dad needs to find that it isn't better out there, he needs to realize how good he had it here. Maybe he will find God and that is the most important thing when he finds Him he will know he is supposed to come home.
Holly, I find that often our gut is right. If you're feeling more positive about your sitch, then great. Go with your gut on this one and just keep doing what you're doing.
Sometimes it's the subtle things that say so much to us. A vibe, if you will. And you're getting some positive vibes from him. Go with it.
Married 9 years Kids 5 and 6 Bomb 2006 H back and forth for a year M now back on track
I am using my daughter's computer, and I can not get on my school email, which is the email I use. So if you are sending me stuff there, I can not get it for awhile, OK?
Any news on that 10 foot tall pole?
Bomb 1/06 D dismissed 11/07, attempt reconciliation. Premature. Divorce final October 31, 2008. OW looks like bad history. Over. Still hopeful. Baby steps. In R with my X.
Don't strain yer brain trying to figure him out. If he smiles, be happy and smile back. If he remembers something nice, be glad.
The best way to see what he means by that, is find some subtle way to let another memory drift under his nose. Let him smell the chance to smile some more. Keep it simple. Stay patient.
