I'm not sure if I mentioned this early on in the thread...2 days after she left, she came here to collect some stuff..We talked & I told her then, that I would not stand in her way of happyness & I would not cause any trouble for her or the OM. I have been true to my word & will continue to do so as I feel a true promise is a very powerful thing.
Again thakyou for taking your time to read & reply...It's bedtime here 11:30 pm...so, gonna hit the sack ZzZzZzZ