Awesome... Go get 'em MR. Action Man.... maybe you could get a cape too????? LOL just kidding , you sound better in light of all this. MY H once said to me when we were separated and I made a comment. And mind you I never tried to push buttons and (98% of the time to be exact!) always spoke to him kindly like he was this frail little bird with a broken wing. Cant rememeber what I said but he said he thought.."WELL MAYBE IF I KILL MYSELF I WILL MAKE THIS ALL BETTER." IT REALLY TAKES A LOT OF STRENGTH TO SEE SOMEONE YOU LOVE GOING DOWN THE "DRAIN" TO WHO KNOWS WHERE. It does get soo confusing at times but you my friend have a good head on your shoulders and your heart in the right place. Keep up the good work. Love, Ali