Thanks for asking how I'm doing. Yes it is sad that some women can't just be friends with a man. Actually though that is the one thing that makes me think he is probably telling the truth. He had a couple of female friends when we met and has always said he doesn't see the difference between having male friends and female friends and has maintained that philosophy throughout the whole time he was texting her. So maybe my H is just niaive about how some women work and can attach themselves to guys who are just being friendly because like my H they don't see it as any different to a male friend. I said over and over when we were separated that just because he says he has no feelings for her doesn;t mean she has none for him. Maybe I was right all along. Does it make sense that I feel that even if he is telling the truth I still feel betrayed by the fact that he got so friendly with a W that she fell in love with him and I also feel betrayed that he didn't tell her to never contact him again after he got the letter?? I hate all my thoughts right now they all seem so negative.
