Thank you for sharing that. My W does go to an IC, for the abuse, us and generally everything. I try to leave that topic alone as it's white hot. I do know she started a history, but then stopped because she "just didn't want to go there". I understand, as much as I can. It has to be so painful to dig around in that stuff. I almost agree with the scientologist line of thought there. Leave it alone, if it does have a "scab" so to speak, leave it, why tear it open?
I don't really know the answer, just the atmosphere I currently live in is a challenge.
