Questions for all the "Cheated"

[RedHeadWife]

I'm really not sure. I've just had this uneasy feeling the past few days, but it could be b/c I didn't talk to him at all yesterday. When I talked to him this a.m., he said he went to sleep really early the night before (which would have been when I normally would have talked to him yesterday a.m.) and then got up late and didn't even know whether I had called or not to wake him up. He hasn't been sleeping well and said he thinks he finally just crashed.

It's all obviously believable, but in the wake of being cheated on (numerous times throughout our M), it's hard not to wonder if something else is going on when his circumstances are perfect for cheating & not getting caught. I guess I just need to work on the trust issue some more. I'm reading "After the Affair," but I just started it.