She's leaving again

[ShesGreat]

She has contacted two divorce layers today. I am again reading DR. I'm scared. I'm tired. It just doesn't seem right. How do I do this without begging? i feel the need to plead my case. I don't want to go dark, but she keeps asking me for stuff. I don't want to be a doormat, but I don't want her to think I am giving up. Fine line.

And then the kids. I need them to see me as a strong father, but every time I think about what is happening, I break down. S 5 is wondering what is wrong. D 7 knows what is wrong. She was trying to get us to hold hands in church Sunday. My wife did for a minute and then pulled away. This was before the fathers day phone call.

This is a mistake.

I know this is tough and a tough time for you but you have to be strong! What woman want to be with a man that can't keep it together? Or a whiney man? She seems to be all over the place and you have to show her that you are a rock. I know it's hard but stay strong and don't let her shake your composure.

PM me your email add, I want to sent you a PDF of Homer McDonald's book, "Stop Your Divorce". He use some good tactics that you can use now that might help you.