Husband ... You nailed it. Thanks even I needed to read that post Today!!!! ;\)

So sorry Cades you are feeling like this... H is right and when we fill in the blanks we make it way more GRAND/UGLY than it really is.
I am struggling w/ this today too. It sucks ..
You and I both need to kick that Devil off our shoulder... he keeps whispering to me too and none of it is positive.
Love, Ali