I totally agree, except about this: "It doesn't make him weak..."
OK, well I agree and I disagree.
No doubt H is pushing him limits, trying his best, doing things that are incredibly difficult, doing things that truly do take strength and courage.
But, H does not seem to have the strength, right now, to try to reconcile because he does not have the strength to handle what that would take.
This isn't a judgment. He just hasn't developed those muscles yet and you simply cannot suddenly have them. Life is a process of growth in many directions. In one direction, but surely not all, Donna is way ahead of him.
