I understand, IP, that it's so hard to feel good about him when you don't know if he is lying or not, but maybe since he has insisted he is telling the truth, you should just make up your mind to believe him. My H will also just plod along as though things are perfectly normal, though he will occasionally make some reference to our situation, and I will look at him, wondering just what the heck is going through that head of his.
Hey, Alimari, if I didn't know better, I would think your ex-friend was my sister, the crazy one who likes to go after other women's men. The one who once told my sister she could have her boyfriend, and anyone of her sister's boyfriends. She even tried to get my H to say she was prettier than me. She is the type to call and tell lies like your ex friend. She will play people off against each other, and call one to lie about something one said, and then call the other one to tell what they said. She thrives on conflict, and even recently called my H and ordered him to do something for her. And she said all the H's have hit on her. I wonder if we all know someone like this??
So, IP, she could be saying these things because she knows you will see them, and knowing how some women (even some policewomen) who work with my H are, I don't doubt for a minute she could make stuff up to get at you, and cause conflict in your M. Some women can't truly be friends with a man without seeing something more in it, imagining that he wants more, and trying to make it happen however they can.
You are a strong lady, stronger than a nut like her, so chin up, girl.
