"I did set some very clear ones, ( especially re OW sitch ) but I guess I was trying to say that for me my Husband seemed to waaaay needy/too much of an "alien" to push too,too much. "
Nothing wrong with setting your boundaries in one place for awhile for your own reasons and then moving them later. The important thing is not so much WHERE the boundaries are, but that they are YOUR boundaries, they work for YOU, and YOU enforce them.
