I know a little how you feel as when my H said he'd changed his mind and would like to move back in to see how things went it was in the same conversation as him saying he would like a new and quite expensive car. So as you can imagine I thought he was only coming back so that he could get the car as he wouldn't have been able to get it at the same time as paying maintenance for our S and paying legal fees to D. However, we had only been separated 4 months - nowhere near as long as you. You say you had just decided to move on....really or just felt there was no longer any point in DBg?? What I'm trying to say is if you still love your W and still want her to come back to work things out and have a better M together then maybe you have no choice but to tentatively trust her that she wants you and not just because money is tight. I think you would soon know if it was just about money because she wouldn't be prepared to put in the hard work it takes to be piecing it back together and I don't think anyone could pretend they wanted to be with someone for money for too long without it being obvious.
Hope this helps and good luck, IP
Oh edited to say that by the way we have been back together for 6 months now so it wasn't about the car!
