SO sorry to read that TY.. you need to love her from a distance. Lovingly detach so this does not consume you. I too like you feel so bad to see my H suffer . Then at times yeah you want to throw your hands up and say OK you WIN.... this is so difficult. You love her so much and she keeps calling you for help and you are there for her and she still seems to be "angry " with you. Yeah their bahavior seems so up and down back and forth and upside down too..... I dont have any concrete advice for you I dont ever feel good at giving advice but know I am here for you to support you and to listen ... What I did learn this weekend is to detach more and that I can love him w/o being consumed by it or his drama and be ok. MAYBE you too~ Take care and God bless....
