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OK I must be truly feeling better.. because the first thing that popped into my head when I read this was "What's that?? I can't hear you over all the crunching."



The eggshell crunching thing yeah that was funny Nikki... Very funny actually. ;\) I am so gald you are feeling better,, it is so good to laugh. I was reading a post Theo posted in INF/A forum and I was laughning so hard yesterday,, it was great.
I guess it came off to literal when I said I could not set boundaries. I did set some very clear ones, ( especially re OW sitch ) but I guess I was trying to say that for me my Husband seemed to waaaay needy/too much of an "alien" to push too,too much. But I was at a loss for words.That does not mean your H is the same, he may very well be ready for this. I know you will get thru this. And NO!!!!! that is no way to live at all. OT is right... \:\)
I do believe setting boundaries is very , very important and I wish you all the best in your R. You will do very well you are so open to change and have a FANTASTIC PERSONALITY.
Take care and God bless....