The chances are not slim for reconciliation because you have sold the house. You can look at it as a new beginning. Starting fresh from the ground up. As long as you two have been civil and are still "seeing" each other, there is a chance.
I think you're right but mine is for sale and I'm torn over it. I love the house and want to keep the connection with my W. However, finding out the neighbor has been a negative influence makes me think the sale would be a blessing. Also, getting out of debt is a huge deal fr my W, so it would be good for that.
And, I think it holds bad memories for us, and we can get rid of those too. I don't know, it's tough, it's such a nice house and I love it, but I love my W more - so if she wants to sell it, it'll get sold.
Don't let it get you down, it'll be OK, a house is just an object, selling it doesn't have much determination on the happiness of your marriage, if any at all.
We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.
3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...
