Letting Go of My WAW

[SuperDad]

Thanks JR,
I think her LLs are gift giving and words of affirmation. The first one is not really possible in the current sitch as she will view it as pursuing and it may even make her feel guilty. I am working on having PMA around her and thanking her for the little things she does for the kids and around the house.

Again, she is totally closed to working on our M/R and has convinced herself that I, our marriage and the idea of marriage in general are the causes of her unhappiness. I am sure that this relates to the euphoria of her EA and to depression that she has been struggling with for years (I did not really understand this until recently )

SD