Thanks. I have been thinking about this a little too. What do I really need to know about the past 16 months?? Will it make a difference? Do I really want to know or just pretend it never happened? All kinds of things running through my mind right now.
I guess at some point I'll have to "call" her on her secret cell phone, e-mail account, and myspace page (which I noticed she hasn't been on since the 13th). I'm hoping that these will disappear on their own so I'm trying to give her a little time.