Basically, he is accusing me of not being a loving person in the letter. That just isn't true. I am a loving person and I did love him but just not in the way he wanted. Really, I'm a pretty simple woman. If I love you, I will want to have sex with you and I will want to bake you a cake on your birthday. I might have sex with you just because you are cute, but I won't bake you the cake. I will never feel sorry for you because you hate your job or your life because I love you. It just feels "wrong" to me.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver