Questions for all the "Cheated"

[RedHeadWife]

I know what you're saying. My S2 has a lot of problems w/ daddy being gone when it's bedtime. He constantly gets up until I go to bed to come out and tell me he misses Daddy. It's really hard b/c he doesn't understand that, yes, daddy's coming back, but not right away. He kind of seems to think when we say that daddy is coming back, that he's on the airplane right then on his way.

I then think about what having to deal w/ that if H and I were just separated and daddy was 'gone.' It still just floors me that H did all that he did to our family and, in my POV, didn't really try to fix things before he just said 'I'm done.'

Anyway, this a.m. when I talked to H he said 'well, at least it's not forever' (him being gone) and so that's positive to our sitch, but it still crosses my mind that not long ago, he did want it to be 'forever.'