I just needed someone to tell me I was doing the right thing to not say anything. I was just worried(I always worry about everything)that if he suspected something happened and I didn't say anything everything would come crashing down later. I don't think anyone said anything to him. I mean I would think if he thought something really happened he would confront me. They were teasing me about something the next day and I said I didn't remembet saying it and I told my h I hope I didn't do anything stupid I didn't remember like dancing on a table. I knew I hadn't. He said don't worry you were fine, which leads me to believe he didn't think anything.
I am assuming he was fishing, feeling down when he made the you like the cousin comment not really thinking anything. When I had been talking to him(cousin) that night h didn't seem to care. He goes in and out of accusing me of not loving him when he is feeling down or sorry for himself. I don't think I do anything that makes him feel this way. SO I will just let it go and like suggested.