Gotcha, but do not think that I am in anyway reccomending you wait until she come out of that cocoon. I am not, you already wited ten months for that.
No offense, but if she was making any, and I mean any efforts, then maybe I would say that to you. She is not and you don't deserve to live that way. Making blueberry muffins doesnt count either.
What I was more saying is it's a crying shame that she doesnt see that if she just gave you something you would wait and see. Instead she chooses to act in the manner that she is acting.
Funny thing is Scott, lets assume all this goes forward and you are divorced in 6 months. She will move on to a new relationship, or the one with assmonkey fireman boy, and it will fail. It will fail because she isnt aware that she needs time to become a good woman and discover herself. So instead she may end up being one of those women that have multiple failed marriages because they do not deal with their own issues. Very sad for her.
You on the other hand will have a wonderful relationship with the next woman who is lucky enough to land you. All that you have worked on, discovered about you, fixed in your relationship skills. Wow, thats gonna be one lucky woman......
Never mind the fact that you will have all of us watching and kicking your ass if you screw up.
