25, I agree it would have been strange for us to go through counseling and never have it mentioned. My wife is still saying that it is over between them and her counselor backed her saying "I feel the A is not going on at this point". Yesterday, during the day we did our talking through our L's. She ended up agreeing to all the changes that I wanted in her purposed provisional agreement. I now do not have to go to court on Friday. When I got home my W told me that it bothers her that I feel the A is still going on and that I still do not get it. I guess my L told her L that I felt the A was still going on and that I wanted a quick D. She also told that she thought the comment about my car being fully loaded was funny. I told her that I felt it was immature and unprofessional. She ended up saying that her L was just trying to make a point that she was getting the older car and that I had the brand new one. I did not say anything to that, but if we are going to make points in legally documents I think I have more of a right and more ammo. I do not want to go there and will be telling my L not to either. She also said that she is not going to any play games. Towards the end of our conversation I was telling her that I got that she feels we have never connected....She ended up telling me that I am still ERC and she started to cry.... but stopped herself as best she could.....
Today she has 5D and is going to Great America. I have 2D tonight it will be just the two of us. It she be fun, she is an awesome kid.
My 5D has been asking to come to work with me lately, so I am thinking of coming in late one of these days and working a half day. Of course I will be bringing 5D with me.
