PS I called DH to see how the night went and check in on D4 and apparently my DH had some type of emotional breakdown last night while I was at my parents and had my in-laws over till 2 AM. This scared D4 and she ended up wetting her bed, which she never does. I am happy his parents are there for him but I am worried how this is impacting my little one. DH will not let me take her out of the house and I agreed as I thought she would feel more secure staying in our home while we were sorting this out. But now I am not so sure. Also DH immediately is jumping to the conclusion that since I need space *I* am having an affair.

I can't help but wonder if he is trying to guilt me into staying in the home since he wasn't very receptive to my having time away in the first place.

Help me out here. I want to keep communication open with him but not if I am going to be accused of things and guilted about my decision. It certainly did not make me feel any fonder of him.


Me: 30
EX-H: 37
DD: 5
Separated 6/07. MC for months, EX-H quit MC.
Divorce Final 8/14/08.
Trying to move on with new life.