Also, do not tell her anything about who you are going out with (other than friends), or try not to disclose too much about the night the next day. Just make sure that your PMA is on a high on Saturday morning.
The less she knows the better.
AndyV M38 W36 D7 M 13 years Together 17 years W wants D mid Dec 06 (ring off) W wants separation early Jan 07 (she backdated to Oct 06) EA revealed end March 07 (Nov 06 W first meeting with OM) Hallmark moment "I care for you but am no longer in love with you."