It's good that you feel as though you are done - now maybe you will stop begging and doing everything you can to ensure he stays with OW by being totally erratic and (a) crazy womanand you'll get to a place where you can look after yourself, follow the philosophy of DBing and let him have enough space to sort his head out.
He still wants to go to MC?? He's not done yet, he's very confused.
Pull yourself together and get on with it.
OK?
V
Never make someone a priority, who makes you an option.