Lou,

I'm sure that thoughts like those cross her mind. She's clearly living in a place of fantasy right now, but yet she's also bright enough to know that OM#1 is PROBABLY (the rest of us right-thinking types would say "definitely") not future material for her. So I do think she thinks often of divorce (or at least separation), and how she can have perhaps other relationships, and live more comfortably financially.

Choc.